An Engaged Life

Tips for a Parent

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A healthy diet prepared at home. Avoid harmful food. Fat, sugar, salt, additives, chemicals...
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Kids drink water at meals. A jug of water is put on the table
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Children are not adults. Don't be demanding and behave like children. They learn from you.
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Give hugs and show words of appreciation at any time of the day. Love. Love. Love in many ways.
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Never argue with partner, family, friends or strangers in front of children
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Say Yes often and give reasons in a loving way. Say No and give reasons in a loving way.
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Know the power of staying calm as proof of skilful parenting.
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Never shout at children to wake them up for school. Wake them up with kind words and touch.
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Remember it is job of a parent to have school uniform ready and homework/satchel each morning.
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Learn from people and cultures about relating to children.
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Share your experiences with children wihtout keep repeating yourself.
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Never conclude your children stop you from experiencing an adventurous life.
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Check out online practical advice. Share with others. Join Facebook groups.
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Be open to benefits of play, outdoors, spirituality, religion, philosophy of life and more.
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Be mindful not to put blame on yourself for children's behaviour. They havd many influences.
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Children will ask deep and profound questions about life, change and death.
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Make sure you find ways to respond to their questions so you nourish their inquiry.
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Remember your role occurs when your child or children are in your presence or you act for them
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Never raise your voice, except if child is in danger. Eg might cross the road in unmindful way.
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Appreciate times of child's absence, such as at school or out playing.
May all parents and children live in peace and harmony