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Bridge Over a Lake

Body Language

Bridge Over a Lake

50 clues about a persona coming from the body

  1. An intimate gaze shows desire.

  2. Arms crossed – defensive, negative or resistant to listening.

  3. Attraction or aversion may show in difference of distance from another.

  4. Blinking frequently means tired, bored or uninterested.

  5. Body pointing such as direction of cross-legged on chair shows exclusion.

  6. Boredom when head is fully supported by hand

  7. Both hands covering genitals – emotional moment and child like humility

  8. Collar pull when lying.

  9. Confident in posture hands show nervousness.

  10. Copying others gestures to gain acceptance.

  11. Cross-legged in chair – reserved, displeasure, pulled back.

  12. Deceit - rubbing eyes, tight lipped, eyes turned away.

  13. Disapproves of words.  Person picks at different places in clothing.

  14. Dishonest or holding – eye contact is less than one third.

  15. Excitements so eyes can dilate four times size. Look at the pupil.

  16. Face can show opinion of someone formed in first 90 seconds.

  17. Finger pointing - aggression

  18. Fingers on teeth – under pressure.

  19. Folded arms - contract.

  20. Hands on hips to highlight clothing

  21. Hands on hips to show aggressive attitude.

  22. Hands on legs – to show ready to leave

  23. Head down – negative, feeling low

  24. Hidden palms may show hidden truths, open palms show open truth.

  25. Holding hands behind back to show authority.

  26. If person covers his mouth while you are speaking, it may show he/she/other thinks you are not telling the truth.

  27. Information to the brain 87% comes from the eyes and 9% from the ears.

  28. Intimate gaze goes further covering face, upper body.

  29. Intimate, personal, social and public.

  30. Items in front of body – to make a barrier.

  31. Leaning back, hands behind head, showing a lot of conceited confidence,

  32. Locking of ankles may mean biting of lip.

  33. More than two thirds shows interest or hostility

  34. Neck scratching - doubt or insincerity.

  35. Rubbing back of neck – pain in the neck

  36. Rubbing of ears to block the words or disagrees

  37. Rubbing palms together shows positive expectation

  38. Sexual message. Open legs, rolling hips, sideways glance, heavy lipstick, mouth slightly open, fondling dinking glass or cup, leg twine, crossing and uncrossing legs, gently speaking in a low voice, reaching out to get closer.

  39. Sexually aggressive clothing

  40. Superior crossed armed thumb up

  41. Supporting thumb on face shows critical attitude.

  42. Thinking posture often shows chin in palm of hand

  43. Tilt to one side shows interest or doubt.

  44. Timid people meet the eyes less.

  45. To go and sit besides the person may change ankle posture to a more open or closed one.

  46. Touching property shows pride of ownership

  47. Turning away to look at another shows loss of interest

  48. Two people can move into intimacy zone.

  49. When tired, eyes tend to look away.

  50. With lies, hand goes to the mouth

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