An Engaged Life

Body Language

50 clues about a persona coming from the body
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An intimate gaze shows desire.
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Arms crossed – defensive, negative or resistant to listening.
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Attraction or aversion may show in difference of distance from another.
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Blinking frequently means tired, bored or uninterested.
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Body pointing such as direction of cross-legged on chair shows exclusion.
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Boredom when head is fully supported by hand
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Both hands covering genitals – emotional moment and child like humility
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Collar pull when lying.
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Confident in posture hands show nervousness.
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Copying others gestures to gain acceptance.
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Cross-legged in chair – reserved, displeasure, pulled back.
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Deceit - rubbing eyes, tight lipped, eyes turned away.
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Disapproves of words. Person picks at different places in clothing.
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Dishonest or holding – eye contact is less than one third.
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Excitements so eyes can dilate four times size. Look at the pupil.
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Face can show opinion of someone formed in first 90 seconds.
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Finger pointing - aggression
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Fingers on teeth – under pressure.
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Folded arms - contract.
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Hands on hips to highlight clothing
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Hands on hips to show aggressive attitude.
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Hands on legs – to show ready to leave
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Head down – negative, feeling low
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Hidden palms may show hidden truths, open palms show open truth.
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Holding hands behind back to show authority.
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If person covers his mouth while you are speaking, it may show he/she/other thinks you are not telling the truth.
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Information to the brain 87% comes from the eyes and 9% from the ears.
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Intimate gaze goes further covering face, upper body.
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Intimate, personal, social and public.
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Items in front of body – to make a barrier.
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Leaning back, hands behind head, showing a lot of conceited confidence,
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Locking of ankles may mean biting of lip.
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More than two thirds shows interest or hostility
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Neck scratching - doubt or insincerity.
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Rubbing back of neck – pain in the neck
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Rubbing of ears to block the words or disagrees
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Rubbing palms together shows positive expectation
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Sexual message. Open legs, rolling hips, sideways glance, heavy lipstick, mouth slightly open, fondling dinking glass or cup, leg twine, crossing and uncrossing legs, gently speaking in a low voice, reaching out to get closer.
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Sexually aggressive clothing
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Superior crossed armed thumb up
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Supporting thumb on face shows critical attitude.
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Thinking posture often shows chin in palm of hand
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Tilt to one side shows interest or doubt.
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Timid people meet the eyes less.
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To go and sit besides the person may change ankle posture to a more open or closed one.
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Touching property shows pride of ownership
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Turning away to look at another shows loss of interest
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Two people can move into intimacy zone.
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When tired, eyes tend to look away.
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With lies, hand goes to the mouth